Marriage Redefined?
Redefining marriage–-a relationship between people of the opposite sex–to include relationships by those of the same sex is as unfounded as redefining the meaning of a sedan to include a truck. Or like redefining taking a bath to include taking a shower. Yet for some issues in this country, they defy logic.
There is something fundamentally different between a relationship of opposite sexes and those of the same. Similarly, there is something fundamentally different between a sedan and a truck. Anyone who admits to the fundamental difference between a sedan and a truck yet deny the difference between same and opposite sex relationships is in denial at best or a political hack at worst. In the former, they are both forms of transportation but because of their fundamental difference they are categorized differently. In the latter, they are both relationships, but because a marriage is already between individuals of the opposite sexes, Gays must call theirs something else.
Marriage is a relationship between individuals of the opposite sex. If Gays want a similar institution, call it something else. As a Christian, I know that not everyone believes in God or even hopes to go to Heaven. Therefore, I am not saying that Gays should not be allowed to share in the benefits provided by the State. What I am saying is that Marriage is taken.
There are many things out there that share a similar underlying principle. With same and opposite sex relationships there is love, partnership, trust, commitment etc. However, similar underlying principles do not mean they have to share the same name. If so, then all forms of transportation would be called a sedan; all bodies of water called an ocean, right down to the pool in your backyard. We would tell people we are going to take a shower only to be found laying in the tub with bubbles. We must not redefine marriage to include Gay relationships if we believe in clarity. I must be able to ask my kids “when do you plan to get married?” and if they are Gay they should be able to respond, never dad but I plan to……
The point that I hope to impress upon my readers is that I have no problem with people who do not believe in God seeking the benefits and provisions afforded by the State. The benefits and provisions afforded by the State are simply benefits. They are not what marriage is. Marriage is distinctly a relationship between a man and a woman joined together in holy matrimony. If the State can afford to redefine its laws– like common law– and can afford to provide similar benefits to those of the same sex, have at it. Those laws and benefits are not what marriage is. Marriage is a relationship between individuals of the opposite sex. We should not stand idly by and permit the redefining of a distinct institution simply because individuals want the benefits provided by the State.
If you ask Gays what they really want they will tell you they want their relationships to share the backing and security of the State. At no point have they said that their relationship is the same as those of opposite sexes. People must understand that marriage transcends the formation of the United States and thus any marriage law or provision. If they do, then would they understand why the distinct definition of marriage can and must be preserved while Civilly extend similar provisions to Gays.
My contention is very simple. A relationship between those of the opposite sex is fundamentally different from those of same sex. It is fallacious to define things that are fundamentally different as the same. On one hand, there are the benefits provided by the State and on the other hand, there is marriage. Destroying and redefining marriage because some seek State benefits and provisions is something no one should sit idly by and permit if they believe in clarity.










